Our second day trip started early, and Seth decided to stay in Saigon for this one. It was organised by my grandma and took us into the Mekong Delta to visit some of her side of the family. In Saigon, we picked up her two aunts (my great-great aunts), grabbed three roast ducks, and drove a few hours southeast, into the Delta. We took the van across a river via ferry, then drove it down an extremely narrow, newly paved road through some small villages. It was apparent the road was only meant for pedestrians, bicycles, and the odd motorbike, and taking the van in, which filled the road and scraped against low hanging branches, seemed a little silly (why could we not just walk in?).
We stopped at a little thatched roof house with dirt floors and were quickly greeted by at least two dozen people of all ages. I was told they were almost all relatives (though Mom was not sure of the relations), with the exception of a few children who were probably neighbourhood kids stopping by out of curiosity. After steamed banana rice cakes and coconut milk drinks, about 25 of us crammed into one long fishing boat and floated over to the family burial plot located on a nearby island. Mom and the older ladies visited with deceased relatives and made offerings of roast duck and fruit, then we floated back to the village, where we ate the unlucky ducks and fruit :o)
After lunch the young kids got extremely excited and pulled me, Tammie, and Julie along for quite a ride through the village. Once they saw I brought a camera they would rush over to a nearby spot, line up, have me take a picture, crowed around to look at the picture on the camera and squeal and laugh, then zip over to another location to repeat the process. We visited the dirt floor primary school, the temple, and a few back roads, taking pictures at every turn. I was lucky to have Julie and Tammie there to help translate, otherwise I would not have known what to do!
One older girl, Tuyen, (I think she is 19, but could easily pass for 13) seemed to be the ring leader of the youngsters. I believe she is the granddaughter of my Mom's cousin. She was very cheerful, enthusiastic, and never let me out of her sight. Her English was not very good but she was able to get her point across using a variety of tactics, the most effective being writing words and short phrases on a piece of paper for me to read (her writing English was better than her speaking). We exchanged email address and promised to keep in touch (she has internet access every Saturday).
The entire day was a real whirlwind experience, even though Dad and I were uncertain what was happening for most of it (only Vietnamese was spoken unless I asked someone to translate a particular idea, and this unfortunately did not happen very often). The atmosphere was extremely celebratory and buzzing with energy, and the family so totally and unconditionally generous to their western counterparts. It is hard to believe that I have family living in what we would consider 'poor conditions' in a country so foreign and different to our own--it is an extremely grounding experience.
Loading onto the ferry (Mekong Delta)
Xoi (Sticky rice) Man! (Near our hotel in Saigon)
Selling coconuts in the road (Saigon)

Exercisers in the park where we go running (Saigon)

Lots of electrical wires (Saigon)

Tiny banana (Saigon)
Breakfast in the cafe below the hotel (Saigon)

Overly manicured Tourist Park (Saigon)
On Thursday (12 June), we had a final brunch (dim sum) with my aunt's family and grandma, then Mom, Dad, Seth and I departed for our flight to Hanoi. The taxi ride into downtown Hanoi, complete with thumping techno music, gave us an idea of what to expect: a somewhat more western and a bit more slick city than Saigon. This is contrary to what many people from the south of Vietnam would say, who claim that Saigon is the big city and Hanoi (a much older 'country' city) is still behind in its development. Upon first glance Hanoi seems to have more aggressive and more flashy people, and perhaps even a darker underbelly--at least where we are staying, drugs and prostitution are more apparent than what we saw in Saigon (though nothing beats Saigon's numerous late-night "haircut" and "massage" parlours!).
The next day was spent exploring Hanoi--first was a jog around one of the lakes right across from the hotel (Hoan Kiem Lake), followed by a walk around the town. We headed for Ho Chi Minh's Mausoleum (which was closed) then to the Temple of Literature. The temple was originally built nearly 1000 years ago (around the time when Hanoi was built) and dedicated to scholarly research, though I do not know if there is any original piece of the temple or its grounds that remains. In the evening the four of us met up to watch one of Hanoi's famous water puppet shows, which was very charming yet also a little cheesy, then Seth and I caught a train to Sapa. Mom and Dad wanted to spend another night in Hanoi so they could take a tour of the Perfume Pagoda the following day. The hotel booked two tours for us (Sapa and Halong Bay), and though Seth and I have always tried to keep free of tours, we decided in this case it would be the best thing to do--but to compromise we would get to Sapa a day early to explore it a little on our own first.

Hanoi


The trip several hundred miles north into the highlands, near the Chinese border, consisted of an overnight sleeper train (which was not cleaned and smelled pretty rank), and in the morning we were met by a guide who took us on a minibus through windy, misty mountain roads from Lao Cai to Sapa. Sapa is known for its beauty and for the hill tribes who have settled in the region. The tribes maintain their traditional way of life and have become a 'must see' for anyone travelling to north Vietnam.
The second Seth and I stepped out of our van in front of our hotel we were 'greeted' by nearly a dozen little montagnard girls in exotic and beautiful clothing firing off question after question at us: 'what's your name?', 'where you from?', 'have brothers or sisters?', 'where you stay', etc. How charming, they were practicing their English on us!
After some confusion over our hotel, we went for a quick late morning jog around town (we did not know that we would not be able to go to the neighbouring hill tribe villages without a guide or permit, which really limited our running routes), and since it rained most of the rest of the day we were unable to explore outside Sapa. However, the Saturday Market was on so we got to fight the crowds and wander around the vendors and stalls...